June 16th – Ephesians 4:32
When someone hurts us, our first reaction is rarely forgiveness. More often, we want them to hurt the way we hurt. We replay the conversation, rehearse what we wish we had said, and sometimes even imagine ways to get even. After all, if they caused us pain, shouldn’t they have to feel some pain too? Yet God’s Word points us in a very different direction.
The truth is that unforgiveness doesn’t hurt the other person nearly as much as it hurts us. Bitterness settles into our hearts, steals our peace, and affects the way we view others. It can damage our relationships, consume our thoughts, and create distance in our walk with God. The longer we hold on to an offense, the heavier the burden becomes.
That’s why Ephesians 4:32 calls us to be kind, tenderhearted, and forgiving. Not because people always deserve it, but because Christ has forgiven us. Every one of us has fallen short. Every one of us has needed God’s mercy. If God were to treat us the way we often want to treat those who hurt us, where would we be? Instead, He extended grace, forgiveness, and love through Jesus Christ.
Forgiveness doesn’t mean pretending the hurt never happened. It doesn’t mean the offense was acceptable, nor does it always mean reconciliation is possible. Sometimes healthy boundaries still need to remain. Forgiveness simply means releasing our right to revenge and trusting God to handle what we cannot. It means placing the hurt in His hands and allowing Him to heal our hearts.
The beautiful thing about forgiveness is that it sets us free. The person who benefits most from forgiveness is often not the one receiving it, but the one extending it. When we let go of bitterness, we make room for God’s peace, healing, and joy to fill our hearts once again. It isn’t always easy, but with God’s help, we can choose forgiveness just as Christ chose to forgive us.

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