Kindness

October 21st – Proverbs 3:3

Proverbs 3:3

When life feels hard, what want most is to be treated with kindness and understanding. But Proverbs 3:3 reminds me that these are the very things I should be giving to others, too. I need to give grace when someone disappoints me. And choosing kindness when I’m frustrated.

Living in truth means being honest, keeping my word, and letting God’s Word guide the way I live. I’ll be honest, I don’t always get this right. Sometimes my feelings get the best of me, or I find it harder to show mercy  when Ive been hurt.

But I don’t want the way others treat me to determine the kind of person I am. I want God to keep working on my heart. I want Him to help me respond with love instead of frustration, and understanding instead of judgment.

With so much anger and division in our world today, I think we could all use a little more mercy and truth. My prayer is that God continues to shape my heart so that the kindness I show, the words I speak, and the way I treat others reflect Him.

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October 18th – Ephesians 4:2

Ephesians 4:2

What does it mean to bear one another in love? It means being willing to give people grace. Even when they test our patience, disappoint us, or have a different opinion. And it means remembering that we all have days when we don’t get things right.

Sometimes loving others means listening instead of judging. Or being patient, and choosing kindness when it would be easier to walk away. That doesn’t mean we always have to agree, nor accept hurtful behavior. But we are to treat others with the same grace and compassion we hope to receive.

Actress Katherine Hepburn once said, “Love isn’t what you expect, it’s what you’re willing to give.” A beautiful reminder that love isn’t just about what others do for us, it’s about what we’re willing to offer them. Jesus showed us that kind of love through His mercy and sacrifice. And with His help, we can learn to love more generously and hold one another up rather than tear one another down.

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October 16th – 1 Corinthians 16:14

1 Corinthians 16:14

The world around us seems to grow more divided by the day. Where anger is loud and hate is even louder. But as Christians, we have an opportunity to be different. God’s Word reminds us to do everything in love, and that means more than loving those who agree with us or treat us kindly.

Do everything love means being mindful of our words, attitudes, and the way we treat people. Especially when we disagree. We can stand firmly in our faith without being unkind, speak God’s truth without tearing others down, and hold on to our convictions without losing sight of compassion.

It’s easy to respond to anger with anger or to judge someone without knowing what they’re going through. But Jesus calls us to a higher way. He calls us to love our neighbors. To show the grace shown us. And to remember that every person we encounter is someone He loves.

We may not be able to change the hearts of everyone around us, but we can ask God to keep changing ours. So before we speak, react, and before we decide how to treat someone, let’s ask ourselves this. “Am I doing this in love?” May the way we live reflect Jesus so clearly that others see His love at work in our hearts.

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October 9th – Proverbs 3:3

Proverbs 3:3

I think we all want to be treated with kindness, understanding, and honesty. Especially on the days when life feels hard. But God’s Word reminds us that these are the very things we should be giving to others, too. Showing mercy means being willing to give grace when someone disappoints us. And choosing kindness when we could respond in frustration, remembering that we all have struggles others may know nothing about.

Living in truth means being honest, keeping our word, and letting God’s Word guide the way we live. Of course, this isn’t always easy. Sometimes people hurt us, patience wears thin, and our first reaction isn’t always the one that honors God. But that’s why we need Him to keep working in our hearts.

God wants mercy and truth to become more than words we read in the Bible. He wants them to show in the way we love, forgive, speak, and treat the people He places in our lives.

We may never know how much a little kindness or an honest word can mean to someone, but when we let God shape our hearts, even the smallest things can make a difference.

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October 1st – Galatians 6:7

Galatians 6:7

There’s something beautiful about a harvest. We see the fields filled with golden grain and the trees heavy with fruit. But we don’t always think about what happened long before the harvest arrived. Someone had to plant the seed, tend the soil, water it, and patiently wait for it to grow.

Our hearts are much the same. Every day, we are planting seeds through our thoughts, words, choices, and the things we allow to take root in our hearts. Some seeds are planted intentionally, while others find their way in without us even realizing it. And over time, those seeds begin to produce something in our lives.

But what are we planting? Are we planting faith or fear? Trust or worry? Kindness or criticism? Are we filling our hearts with the truth of God’s Word, or are we allowing the worries and distractions of this world to take root?

The beautiful thing is that it’s never too late to start planting something different. God can help us pull out the weeds, soften the hard places, and make our hearts good soil for His Word. We may not see the growth right away, but that doesn’t mean God isn’t working.

So let’s be intentional about what we’re planting. Let’s fill our hearts with His Word, nurture our faith, and make room for the kind of fruit that reflects Jesus. And as we do, let’s trust God with the growing.

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August 2nd – John 15:4

John 15:4

Jesus said, “Abide in Me, and I in you.” Those simple words hold the secret to the Christian life. In a world that constantly tells us to do more, be more, and rely on our own strength, Jesus reminds us of something different. Which is that our greatest need isn’t to strive harder but to stay close to Him.

Just as a branch can’t survive apart from the vine, we can’t flourish spiritually apart from Christ. We may be busy, productive, and even well intentioned. But without Him eventually we’ll become weary and spiritually dry. Because abiding in Jesus means being intentional. Intentionally making Him our daily priority through spending time in His Word, talking with Him in prayer, trusting His promises, and depending on His strength instead of our own.

The more we remain connected to Jesus, the more His life flows through us. That allows us to produce the fruits of the Spirit. Fruits including love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, and faithfulness.

So if you’ve been feeling exhausted or distant from God, maybe it isn’t because you need to do more. Maybe He’s simply inviting you to draw nearer and rest in His love. Stay connected to the Vine, and He will provide everything you need to grow, endure, and bear fruit for His glory.

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July 14th – Ephesians 4:31

Ephesians 4:31

It doesn’t take long to see that our world has grown harsher. A quick look at social media or the comments section of almost any post reveals how easily people tear one another down. Behind a screen it’s easy to become a keyboard warrior, speaking words that wound instead of heal.

But God calls His children to live differently. He tells us to put away bitterness, anger, harsh words, and malice because they have no place in a heart that belongs to Christ. In a world that is becoming increasingly mean, Christians should be known for their kindness, gentleness, and grace.

That doesn’t mean people will always treat us well. In fact, they may not. But our response should never be determined by how others treat us. It should be shaped by how Jesus has treated us. He has shown us mercy when we didn’t deserve it, forgiveness when we failed, and love that never gives up.

As these last days grow darker, may we be bright lights for Christ. May our words encourage instead of condemn, build up instead of tear down, and point others to the love of Jesus. The world has enough anger. Let’s be known for grace.

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June 20th – Proverbs 18:21

Proverbs 18:21

Most of us have heard the saying, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” The problem is, it simply isn’t true. Broken bones eventually heal, but hurtful words can leave wounds that linger for years. Many of us can still remember things that were said to us long ago. Words that discouraged us, wounded our hearts, or made us question our worth.

God has given each of us the ability to influence others through our words. Every day we have a choice. We can use our speech to tear down or to build up, to criticize or encourage, to spread negativity or to share hope. Our words have the power to brighten someone’s day, strengthen a weary heart, or point someone closer to Christ.

In a world filled with division, anger, and harsh criticism, followers of Jesus are called to be different. We are called to speak with kindness, grace, and truth. This doesn’t mean we never speak hard truths, but it does mean we speak them with love. Before we speak, it is worth asking ourselves. “Will these words help or hurt? Will they encourage or discourage? Will they reflect the heart of Christ?”

Our words are a gift from God. May we use them wisely, choosing to uplift, encourage, and speak life into those around us. You never know when a simple word of kindness may be exactly what someone needs to hear.

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June 15th – Philippians 2:3

Philippians 2:3

I once heard someone say, “Humility isn’t thinking less of yourself; it’s thinking less about yourself.” I’ve never forgotten that. In a world that constantly tells us we need to be the prettiest, the most popular, the richest, the smartest, or the most powerful, humility doesn’t come naturally. Everything around us encourages self-promotion and putting ourselves first.

Yet God’s Word points us in a different direction. Philippians 2:3 reminds us to value others above ourselves. Not because we have no worth, but because our focus shifts from ourselves to serving those around us. And who better demonstrates this than Jesus? The King of kings, and the Creator of the universe, chose to come to earth in humility. He didn’t come demanding to be served. Instead, He came to serve. He washed feet, touched lepers, comforted the brokenhearted, and ultimately gave His life for us on the cross.

True humility isn’t weakness. It is strength under God’s control. It is choosing kindness over recognition, service over status, and obedience over self-promotion. When we follow Christ’s example, we discover that the most beautiful life isn’t one spent chasing the spotlight, but one spent reflecting the heart of the Savior who humbled Himself for us.

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December 28th – Roman 15:13

Romans 15:13

Now that Christmas is over, the rush of decorating, buying presents, and preparing all the delicious food has come to an end. It feels like a calm after the storm, right? The tree might be coming down, the lights packed away, and the gifts exchanged, but there’s something that still lingers. Something deeper that doesn’t fade when the season ends. Romans 15:13 talks about a hope that fills us with joy and peace, a hope that comes from trusting in God. A reminder that, even though the busy holiday season is behind us, our mission as Christians isn’t. We are still called to share that hope, joy, and peace with others every day of the year. The work of Jesus doesn’t end when the decorations come down. In fact, it’s just beginning. We are meant to be His hands and feet, spreading love, kindness, and hope, no matter the season. So as we look ahead to the new year, let’s remember the deeper work we’re called to. To be filled with God’s joy and peace and to share that with everyone around us. 

Reflection Question: Now that the busyness of Christmas has passed, how can you continue to share the hope, joy, and peace of Jesus in your everyday life? Are there specific ways you can show His love to those around you, even in the ordinary moments?

Prayer Prompt: Lord, thank You for filling us with hope, joy, and peace through Your Son, Jesus. Help me to carry that light with me into the new year, even when the holiday season fades away. Show me the ways I can serve others and share Your love with those who need it most. May Your Holy Spirit guide me to overflow with hope and be a reflection of Your goodness. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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