Unforgiveness

April 16th – Luke 23:33-34

Luke 23:33-34

As Jesus hung on the cross, nails piercing His hands and feet, pain radiating through His body, and insults hurled like stones, He didn’t lash out. Instead, He prayed, “Father, forgive them.” In the middle of unthinkable suffering, He chose mercy. That’s the kind of Savior we have. One whose love runs deeper than our sin. Whose grace stretches wider than our guilt. His forgiveness wasn’t passive, it was powerful. It reached across the centuries and met us in our brokenness. And if Jesus could forgive from the Cross, what excuse do we have to hold onto bitterness? Forgiveness isn’t easy, but it’s freeing. It doesn’t excuse the hurt, but it releases the grip of it. I often ask God, “Help me let go. Help me love like You.” Because the Cross was not just Jesus’ sacrifice. It was His example. So today, as we reflect on Calvary, may we remember that mercy has the final word. Who do you need to forgive?

 

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May 20th – Ephesians 4:30

Ephesians 4:30

Here in Ephesians, Paul warns us against grieving the Holy Spirit, with whom we are sealed for the day of redemption. Grieving the Holy Spirit happens when we engage in behaviors and attitudes that go against God’s will. Actions like lying, harboring bitterness, unforgiveness, slander, and engaging in impurity. Such behaviors create discord and hinder the Spirit’s work within us and among us. To be sealed by the Holy Spirit means that we are marked as God’s own, secured by His promise of eternal life. This seal signifies ownership and protection, ensuring our salvation until the day Christ returns. Understanding this, we are called to live in a manner worthy of our calling, reflecting the holiness and love of God. This involves cultivating a heart of obedience, love, and purity, aligning our lives with the character and purposes of the Holy Spirit. By doing so, we honor the seal of our redemption and allow the Spirit to work freely in and through us, bringing glory to God and advancing His kingdom.

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June 16th – Luke 7:48

Luke 7:48

Then Jesus said to her, “Your sins are forgiven.”

I love the quote that says we tend to look at others through a magnifying glass while looking at ourselves through rose colored glasses. When I read about Simon I immediately felt indignant at how he looked upon the woman at the feet of Jesus. I thought, “Typical Pharisee. Can’t see his own sins through his sanctimonious forest of the sins of others.” Right then and there, God laid a conviction on my heart. It turns out, Simon wasn’t so different from myself. The Lord revealed to me that all of this time, I have been looking at others through the self righteous eyes of Simon. Before if anyone had asked, I would have said that I had forgiven others for hurts of the past. And it’s true, that many times I have prayed for a heart that is free of bitterness and anger. But after some serious soul searching, I realized that although my lips said forgiveness, my heart did not. We all need to take stock of our heart attitudes and makes sure we are offering the forgiveness that the Lord so generously offers to us.

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June 12th – Mark 11:25

Mark 11:25

And whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him, that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses”

Forgiveness isn’t just about letting go of hard feelings or seeking reconciliation with others. It goes deeper, reflecting a fundamental aspect of God’s character. When we forgive others, we demonstrate to the world the mercy and grace that we ourselves receive daily from God. Jesus teaches that our forgiveness from God is intertwined with our willingness to forgive others. By holding onto grudges, resentment, or refusing to forgive, we create a barrier between ourselves and God’s forgiveness. When we harbor unforgiveness in our hearts, it hinders our own spiritual growth and prevents us from experiencing the fullness of God’s love and mercy. That’s why Jesus encourages us to cultivate a forgiving heart. A heart of Christ that lets go of bitterness, and releases others from the debts they owe us. Because in doing so we open ourselves up to receive the abundant forgiveness and grace that God offers. And receive healing, reconciliation, and a deeper connection with God and others.

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June 7th – 2 Corinthians 2:10-11

2 Corinthians 2:10-11

Anyone you forgive, I also forgive. And what I have forgiven, if there was anything to forgive, I have forgiven in the sight of Christ for your sake, in order that Satan might not outwit us. For we are not unaware of his schemes.”

The devil has many tricks in his bag of deception, and unforgiveness is one of them. Constantly he reminds us of the many ways a person has wronged us. And how they should be made to feel guilt and shame. But by casting aside the lies of the enemy and choosing to forgive, we prevent bitterness from taking hold and festering in our spirits. Bitterness only builds a wall between our hearts and God, and gives Satan a foothold in our lives.  And worst of all, it can cause us to exhibit behavior that might lead others away from God. In Hebrews 12:15 we are told, “See to it that no one comes short of the grace of God; that no root of bitterness springing up causes trouble, and by it may be defiled.” As followers of Jesus we are to show the grace of God to all we meet. We are His ambassadors in the world. And our lives should be a testimony of the love, grace, and forgiveness of Jesus. One that it is a light to those who would receive it and a condemnation to those who would reject it.

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April 16th – Nehemiah 6:11

Nehemiah 6:11

Relationships take work. Whether it’s our relationship with God or others, they need a foundation of trust, honesty, love, and repentance to stand strong. Satan is in the business of tearing down, not building up. And he loves nothing more than to form cracks in those foundations through harsh words, misunderstandings, and unforgiving spirits. So when we flee from our problems instead of dealing with them head on, it opens the door for the Enemy to do his worst. When Nehemiah was facing an assignation threat, his friends advised him to hide out in the temple. But he wasn’t about to run away. Because Nehemiah understood that as believers, instead of sinning against God by fleeing, we should always face every problem head on. Standing firm in the faith that the Lord will uphold the righteous. And believing He will give us the power to confront each one in courage and wisdom.

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March 7th – Mark 11:24-25

Mark 11:24-25

Prayer is a wonderful thing. Because it allows our souls to connect with the One who created them. Yet there are things that can keep us from having a successful prayer life. Stumbling blocks that dam up the flow of communication between us and God. And unforgiveness is one of them. So much so, Mark warns us that before we pray, we need to be free of unforgiveness towards others. Why? So that we in turn can receive the forgiveness of God.

Forgiving others is hard, messy, and painful. Yet no matter how many times, or how badly we’ve been betrayed, hurt, or disappointed, Jesus says we are to forgive. In fact, forgiveness is so important to the Lord, when teaching the disciples to pray in Matthew 6, He includes in His prayer, “forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.” How many times do we recite the Lord’s Prayer with unforgiveness harbored in our hearts?

Having a spirit of unforgiveness hinders more than just our prayers. It affects our relationship with God. For not only does it keep us from receiving His pardon for our own sins, but also His peace, grace, and mercy. And it grieves the very Spirit of God living inside of us. Because unforgiveness is a toxin of the Enemy, poisoning our minds, hearts, and souls.

In our own strength such forgiveness is impossible. But through God’s transforming power, we can pull the weed of unforgiveness, stopping it from taking root and spreading. And when we are free from its stronghold, we can approach God with the assurance that when we come Him in prayer, all things we ask will be granted according to His goodness and perfect will.

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