Most of us have heard the saying, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” The problem is, it simply isn’t true. Broken bones eventually heal, but hurtful words can leave wounds that linger for years. Many of us can still remember things that were said to us long ago. Words that discouraged us, wounded our hearts, or made us question our worth.
God has given each of us the ability to influence others through our words. Every day we have a choice. We can use our speech to tear down or to build up, to criticize or encourage, to spread negativity or to share hope. Our words have the power to brighten someone’s day, strengthen a weary heart, or point someone closer to Christ.
In a world filled with division, anger, and harsh criticism, followers of Jesus are called to be different. We are called to speak with kindness, grace, and truth. This doesn’t mean we never speak hard truths, but it does mean we speak them with love. Before we speak, it is worth asking ourselves. “Will these words help or hurt? Will they encourage or discourage? Will they reflect the heart of Christ?”
Our words are a gift from God. May we use them wisely, choosing to uplift, encourage, and speak life into those around us. You never know when a simple word of kindness may be exactly what someone needs to hear.
