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June 20th – Proverbs 18:21

Proverbs 18:21

Most of us have heard the saying, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” The problem is, it simply isn’t true. Broken bones eventually heal, but hurtful words can leave wounds that linger for years. Many of us can still remember things that were said to us long ago. Words that discouraged us, wounded our hearts, or made us question our worth.

God has given each of us the ability to influence others through our words. Every day we have a choice. We can use our speech to tear down or to build up, to criticize or encourage, to spread negativity or to share hope. Our words have the power to brighten someone’s day, strengthen a weary heart, or point someone closer to Christ.

In a world filled with division, anger, and harsh criticism, followers of Jesus are called to be different. We are called to speak with kindness, grace, and truth. This doesn’t mean we never speak hard truths, but it does mean we speak them with love. Before we speak, it is worth asking ourselves. “Will these words help or hurt? Will they encourage or discourage? Will they reflect the heart of Christ?”

Our words are a gift from God. May we use them wisely, choosing to uplift, encourage, and speak life into those around us. You never know when a simple word of kindness may be exactly what someone needs to hear.

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May 9th – Proverbs 18:21

Proverbs 18:21

Words hold weight. With just a few syllables, we can breathe life into someone’s weary soul or crush a spirit already close to breaking. Proverbs 18:21 reminds us that life and death are in the power of the tongue. That means what we say matters. Whether it’s the quiet words we whisper to ourselves in the mirror, or the ones we launch in anger at someone we love. Every word builds or breaks. Think about that for a minute. We are walking around with mouths that can plant hope or harvest hurt. That’s not something to take lightly. What if today, we chose to speak only words that heal, build, bless, and uplift? Not fake positivity, but honest encouragement. What if we paused before responding, and asked, “Will this bring life?” Our words can be the light someone needs or the weight that pulls them under. Let’s be life-speakers. Grace-givers. Truth-tellers wrapped in kindness. And when we mess up (because we will), may our next words be humble and healing.

 

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September 9th – Proverbs 15:1

Week 2 – Wisdom In Speech (Proverbs 15:1)

The wisest of all kings, Solomon reminds us that our speech has the ability to either diffuse tension or escalate conflict. In difficult situations, it can be tempting to respond with sharp or defensive words. But wisdom calls us to speak gently and thoughtfully. Because when we choose kindness and patience in our speech, we reflect Christ’s love and create an atmosphere of peace. Practicing wisdom in our words means taking a moment to pause, pray, and consider the impact of what we are about to say. Are our words building up or tearing down? Are we listening more than we’re speaking? Now responding wisely doesn’t mean avoiding hard truths, but it does mean delivering them with grace and understanding. Because a soft answer not only honors God, but also leads to better outcomes for ourselves and those around us. For the way we speak can be a testimony to the transforming work of Christ in our hearts.

Questions For Reflection

  1. How can we practice responding with gentle words instead of reacting with frustration or anger, especially in challenging conversations?
  1. In what ways can we be more intentional about using our speech to promote peace and understanding, reflecting Christ’s love in our daily interactions?

A soft answer is like a whisper of peace, calming storms with gentle grace. 🙏🏻❤️

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